Ten ways to get a lover

Ten ways to get a lover

Single? Bored? Lonely? In a relationship which is not that fulfilling and wanting to be naughty? Wanting to stay with a guy and cheat too? Perhaps some advice on how to get a lover would be helpful. This is where a telephone clairvoyant sitting or cheap accurate psychic email readings are handy.

It's important to remember that you need to decide two things at the outset.. Do you want this to be a long lasting and serious thing, or just short lived fun, with nothing much emotional if anything - where you will not care of it ends?  ... and if you are already in a relationship do you want to stay with your current partner if for any reason you need to make a decision about your relationship future?  Or are you looking for someone to replace your current husband or partner in the future? Decide these bits and then move on...

If you just want fun then you can forget about making sure the guy has a solid reputation, you can forget about making sure he is loyal and honest, you can forget about making sure you have a lot of things in common and are compatible and you can forget about making sure that the guy is responsible, reliable and good with earning and taking care of money.  BUT if you want something serious these things matter a lot.  

If you want a lover who is just about sex then rate your potentials by their age, looks and how healthy and fit they are and forget the rest.  Think about how they will make you feel physically and forget the rest except for one very important point.   A lot of married men are seeking a lover, mistress, bit on side, some of them are quite desperate and would do almost anything, say anything, tell a pack of lies to get one. Why? BECAUSE the alternative for them is to pay a woman so much per day, evening, morning or hour for their services and it works out very expensive.  A lot of married men only want sex and lie about it to get the woman to feel secure and safe and in love with him.  But there is also the practical issue with a married man.  Can you go to where he lives? Can you phone him when he is at home? Can you meet up regularly? Does he have to dash off after a short time?  There is no point to having a lover who has a great body, good looks, great at sex, but is under his wife's thumb and can only meet you for short meets now and then.  How is this going to satisfy you if you are wanting a lot of great sex?  Suppose he can only meet you once a month or so, supposing he expects you to take time off of work or tell a lot of lies or take risks to meet him?  Is he worth all of this? Don't forget this is not serious. He will not stand by you and comfort you, be with you or help you if you get found out by your current partner.  You could end up totally alone.

Some people consult a tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic when they want to embark on a new venture, especially a romantic or sexual one.  But where does this lead to?  In some cases they may go to consult an amateur or fake practitioner and tell them they have met Peter, John, Robert, Richard, Henry or whoever, and want to know where this may take them,  and the tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic says yes it all looks fantastic enjoy.  But in truth they do not know what they are talking about, or they are simply telling their client what they long to hear and say the same thing to everyone.  I know from personal experience that if you tell a client that the guy they have just met is wrong for them they can get very angry, spiteful, nasty, vindictive towards their tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic.   If they have come to see that person for a face to face 1`2 1 session it can be tricky. If the client is unbalanced, has a bad temper, is a bit vicious, argumentative, violent, it can lead to you deciding that instead of telling them the truth - that the guy is a load of rubbish  -  it is easier to say what will please them so that they smile and go quietly and happily.  But I like to live dangerously. Unlike a typical tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic I tell people the truth.  I hate liars and lying.  If someone is difficult, violent etc they would not be allowed to come to see me for a face to face 1 2 1 in the first place.

Some people also find a lot of comfort in talking to their friends and getting advice from them about their future love or sex life. This can backfire because friends are often full of advice yet their own track record with relationships can be awful. They can be desperately making a mess of their most recent partner, yet they will be full of what you should or should not do. Look at their track record before you listen.

A good tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic will have character and tell you the truth.   If, like me, they have got fed up with people coming to see them and turning nasty when told the truth they will know not to let those people come along for a face to face sitting.  This is fairer to themselves and their clients rather than lying to them.

A properly experienced and full time qualified tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic will value your happiness and future far more than a part timer or amateur so think on.

The best advice for finding a lover once you have sorted out whether this is going to be short term or long term, exciting or safe, loyal and faithful or putting it about, taking risks?  Is to make sure that you keep back some of yourself both to any guys you meet that you are keen on and when you speak to others around you.  Some of the joy of a new thing is having some secrets.  But if that new thing is risky you cannot be too careful.

If you are wanting someone who will be yours for life, just you and them holding hands and walking off into the sunset then you need a properly experienced and full time qualified tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic  and a good compatabiity analysis done by an expert astrologer or numerologist would be essential rather than just leaving things to chance and then regretting all of the love and time you gave them them later on.

How realistic is your idea?  For example. IF you are sixty years of age,  very chubby and plain, poor and fancy the idea of being swept off your feet by a very young, good looking, rich guy what chance do you honestly believe you have that this will happen? I am sorry but that chance is nil. You  have a good chance that you will meet someone who likes you, but no more, and a much higher chance that you will meet someone who pretends to like you and love you but are only after your money.  If you have no money at all they will not waste their time! This is the truth. Men are visual creatures.   If you are seeking young and gorgeous then of course a young and gorgeous man will want the same and he will also have a lot more chance of getting it, because he offers it in return.  Men choose women by looks and think about sex a lot, they are not looking for someone to protect from life, or keep company, or share hobbies, that may come with it but never instead of it.

Is it wise to date someone from work? Usually no. Especially if they are married even if you are supposedly both calm and grown up.  If it ever goes wrong it could mean you get sacked or have to leave out of embarrassment and upset. Is it worth it? You may not see that happening now but it is possible.

Remember that while having a new lover may sound like a splendid and exciting way to move forward the price has to be worth it. Losing your partner or job or self respect may be a step too far.

Often we make mistakes where we cannot turn back the clock.  Do you want to do that?

The amateur or unqualified tarot card reader, crystal ball gazer, astrologer, numerologist, palmist, psychic, clairvoyant medium or mystic will not necessarily be wise enough for you. Or you may be paying them so little they do not really care about all of the floss and problems that can come with a bad outcome. They may specialise in simply spinning a yarn or telling you a feel good movie.